I’ve been seeing some great posts with intentions for the new year. I gave up resolutions many years ago, because I always gave up as soon as I wasn’t perfect with them. I like the idea of intentions or embracing some things while letting others go. So here goes with some of my “ins” and “outs” for the year ahead.
In for 2024
- Giving compliments. It’s so nice to give and receive compliments and it makes a difference. I’ve been trying to give more authentic compliments and I’m upping my game this year.
- Being more intentional with my time. I feel like when I’m less busy, I waste a lot of time. There are many things I want to do, I need to create some planned times to “work” on things instead of being so loose with my time.
- Finally learning Spanish and using it. I just hit day 500 of Duolingo and my reading comprehension is getting better. But I need to take a class or get a tutor to actually start speaking and using Spanish.
- Less editing of my life online and IRL. Like most people, I show the highlight reel online and often in real life. I need to show the bloopers and outtakes and would like to be more authentic and honest with my feelings, too.
- Asking for what I’m worth. I’m very good at advising people on negotiations and not settling for less than they are worth but feel like I need to step it up. I’ve gotten better but I can continue to improve.
Out for 2024
- Complaints. Instead of complaining, I’m going to try to give constructive criticism or think of ways that I can improve the situation myself.
- Saying yes out of obligation. I’ve gotten better at this – especially since 2020 kept us home most of the time. I still find myself doing things because I feel that I “should.” There are some things that I need to do and others that I can pass on – I’m passing on the “shoulds” this year.
- Finishing things I’m not enjoying. I’m that person who finishes every book, podcast, puzzle or show whether I like it or not. I’ve been trying to drop this habit and I’ve gotten better but there is still work to do!
- Comparing myself to others/my younger self. Comparison is the thief of joy and social media is a killer here. Whether it’s running, blog stuff, travel, friendships, we all get trapped by this sometimes. I’m trying!
- Buying things I don’t need because they’re on sale. Deals are my thing, but I’m trying to stop buying because it’s a deal. Keep me honest on this one, friends!
What are your “ins and outs” for the year ahead? Please leave them in the comments.
I’m linking up with Darlene, Michelle, Renee, Jenn and Zenaida for Fit Five Friday. Join us!
Wishing everyone a happy, healthy and joyous 2024!
Have a great weekend!